In Dibakar Banerjee‘s Sandeep Aur Pinky Faraar, now streaming on Amazon Prime Video, Parineeti Chopra plays Sandy Walia, an unscrupulous banker on the run from her past mistakes. She talks about how the film’s depiction of the patriarchy mirrors situations of sexism from her personal life.
Rohini Ramnathan: When I used to be watching the movie, I received actually offended as a result of it included the sorts of (sexist) conditions I’ve additionally needed to face. How offended did the movie make you and which scene gave you the chance to vent that anger?
Parineeti Chopra: This movie is uniquely written. People have grow to be so proof against the patriarchy that they don’t even give it some thought. Women in India face this daily. When I’m getting my home renovated, the contractors don’t discuss to me correctly as a result of I’m a lady. They ask if there’s another person at dwelling they’ll discuss to. I say, ‘No, I bought this house, I’ve made the funds. It’s mine so I’ll select the tiles.’ When I inform them to speak to me, they refuse. This movie has quite a lot of similarities to my private life.
My favorite scene is the ‘paratha achaar’ one wherein all the lads are seated whereas the ladies are standing. Neena Gupta’s character can be standing. She’s so used to the patriarchy that she’ll by no means ask Arjun’s character to move the pickle, however she’ll ask me why I’m seated. While capturing this scene, I used to be reminded of the small city I grew up in, the place the ladies weren’t allowed to eat until the lads went to sleep. They couldn’t eat whereas the lads have been nonetheless seated on the eating desk. Even at my home, my mom wasn’t allowed to take a seat and eat. It’s not that my father made her do that, nevertheless it was an unstated rule in the home. The most essential factor about this movie was the wedding between my character, Sandy, and me – this combination of actual and reel life. This was me saying, ‘Let’s smash the patriarchy.’ We have been making an attempt to indicate how accepted the patriarchy is in India and the way a lot we wish that might change.